Counting Down The Minutes

We’re having 5 days together so we’re sorry about a serious lack of posts!

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Tonks and ben xoxox

Me and Ben have been together a month on wednesday!
I AM SO HAPPY.

About You

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What is your name?

Kayleigh but most people call me tonks.

How old are you?

19

Where do you live?

Manchester, UK

What do you look like?

I am 5 foot tall
Currently blue haired…changes a lot
big wide green eyes
kinda chubby

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About Them

You have a significant other, right?

yeah

What’s their name?

Benjamin Bryans

How old are they?

16

Where do they live?

Birmingham, UK

What do they look like?

Light hair
big beautiful brown eyes
gap in his front teeth that I adore
pouty bottom lip
around 5’6? 5’7?

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About The Relationship

Since you’re taking this, it’s a long-distance relationship, right?

unfortunately :(

Did you meet through the internet?

Sorta…

If not, then how did you meet?

How often do you see them?

As often as we can

How long have you been together?

3 weeks and 4 days but we’ve known each other for 7 months.

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When Was The Last Time You …

…saw them?

a week or so ago

…kissed them?

just before I left Birmingham to go ‘home’

…hugged them?

same as above

…talked to them?

earlier…I think he’s asleep right now. He has band practice tomorrow

…had sex with them?

When he was at my house
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Some Other Questions

What made you decide you wanted to be in a long-distance relationship?

I wanted Ben and distance wasn’t stopping me

How does it usually make you feel?

The distance doesn’t bother me most of the time because I can get excited to see him.

Are there any songs that remind you of them?

SO many!

Ever feel unable to believe you’re in a real relationship because of it?

Yeah I believe the distance really does help us :) we appreciate everything a lot more and we dont argue.

Do you ever feel angry or stressed because of the distance?

I get upset sometimes.

Do you ever take it out on your significant other?

No we just cry at each other..

Are you ever jealous of local couples?

Not necessarily as they all take advantage of the time they get together and that erks me.

What are the advantages of a long-distance relationship?

bonding, trust, communication, dont take anything for granted.

What are the disadvantages?

can’t hug and kiss him when I want or just randomly pop to his house.

Do people have less faith in your relationship because of the distance?

Our friends and family are quite supportive.

Do you know when the next time you’ll see them is?

wednesday!!! On our 1 month anniversary :3

How do you usually talk to them?

text, skype, facebook, phonecalls

Has the distance helped your relationship at all?

yeah

If so, in what ways?

too many to list but i’ll name a few…. trust, love, bonding ect.

Do you find it hard to trust your significant other?

Not at all.

Have you, or your SO, ever taken advantage of the distance and lied?

I dont believe for one second that ben would lie to me and I would never lie to him.

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Future

Do you ever hope to live with your significant other?

definitely!

Do you hope to marry them?

If he dropped to his knees I’d say yes in a heartbeat.

Do you hope to have kids with them?

some day

Do you think it’d be strange to finally have them with you, permanently?

Not at all. we’re perfect together

Do you think there’s a chance of this happening?

I bloody well hope so.

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Depressing

How often do you cry over it?

quite a bit.

Would you ever break up with them because of the distance?

No. I’ve promised him always.

What keeps you from ending it all?

The fact i’m in love.

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Finishing

Overall, are you happy you’re in the relationship?

I’ve never been happier!!

Any advice for others in your situation?

It isn’t easy but its worth every second.

Wonder if i can convince Kayleigh to design my rose tattoo…

Benji